My journey to the past ....PART 1, DORIS TAN
for the last two years, I have been thinking of the past and making an effort to trace back my journey since I became a Baha'i in 1970 December 11th.
I became a Baha'i not knowing much about the Faith, I remember I went to Seremban Bahai centre for Human Right Day celebration and an old China man gave me a card and I declared.
I got married in February 1971, no magical love story, Boon proposed and I accepted. We moved to Kuching in early March the same year and stay till December 1972.
I was young, just turned 20 a few months ago, a new Baha'i. Now thinking of it, my life is being planned by Baha'u'llah without me knowing. We rented a nice house in Rubber Road, 3 rooms upstairs, one downstairs, servant quarters at the back by itself, Fay was born here and surrounded and love by friends.
Being an Airforce pilot, the basic salary is very low. We were given RM600 for rental, 50 for servant allowance and some flying allowance. We were not rich, enough. oh ya, we had to send monthly 200RM to Boon sister because she spent money for our wedding.
Doris Tan.... The first friend I met who was not a Bahai and till today still not a Bahai. She worked in Nafi, a duty free shop specially for armforecs personnels. later part of our live centred around her and her family. They adopted Boon & I, we got to meet her mum, her father left her mum and all of them for another women and didn't treat them well, no money to support them. Doris left school at very young age and took care of two younger sisters and a brother and a sick mother. Anyway, she sacrificed a lot for the family. one of Her sisters, Ronna got married and left to another state, unfortunately when she gave birth to her 2nd child, that useless husband brought a woman home. Doris flew there, pickup her sister and two kids and supported all of them. All this happen in 1971, now the two kids are grown up and to them they have 3 mothers, Doris, Shirley and their birth mother Ronna.
Doris,Shirley, Ronna & I taken in September 2018.r